DATING COMPASS · VERSION 2.0.1

Where is this relationship actually going?

Check the stage, texting balance, dating pace, and compatibility—then leave with one practical next move.

  • Four short steps
  • No account or upload
  • No AI guessing

WHAT THE SCORE MEANS

Patterns, not predictions.

Dating Compass turns the details you enter into four separate signals. It gives more weight to mutual effort, plans that actually happen, compatible values, and the ability to repair conflict.

A score cannot tell you how someone feels. It cannot measure chemistry, consent, safety, or whether a relationship is right for you. Use the result to choose a conversation or a small next step—not to avoid one.

01

Stage

Time, dates, physical closeness, and what has been said out loud.

02

Texting

Message volume, average reply time, and whether initiating feels balanced.

03

Date pace

Recent dates compared with distance, desired pace, and follow-through.

04

Compatibility

Shared interests, daily routines, values, and how disagreement is handled.

Your comfort matters more than a score.

If someone pressures, controls, threatens, isolates, or scares you, this calculator is not the right tool. Talk with someone you trust or contact a qualified local support service.

STRAIGHT ANSWERS

Dating pace and relationship questions

Can a calculator tell me how someone feels?

No. It can organize the behavior and patterns you enter, but it cannot know another person's feelings or intentions. A direct conversation and consistent action are better evidence.

What is a healthy texting pace when dating?

There is no perfect message count. A healthy pace usually feels mutual, leaves room for everyday life, and leads to real plans instead of replacing them.

How often should new couples see each other?

Schedules, distance, and preference all matter. The useful question is whether the pace is realistic and works for both people—not whether it matches a universal rule.

How is the compatibility score calculated?

It combines the interests, lifestyle fit, values, and conflict pattern you select. Values receive the most weight because shared hobbies alone do not settle important expectations.

Are my answers saved?

Not unless you choose Save on this device. A saved result stays only in this browser. You can clear it at any time.